I got news for you, people do not get a hotel room to "talk".
I'm aware of that. I told her that was a stupid argument. She said she knows it sounds terrible but he works for the railroad and is on call for 24 hour periods and they give them a room very close to the office so they can respond quickly if needed. Hotel is only 1~ mile from where he supposedly works. She also was hungover as all hell when I did get home and ask her about it even 3 hours later, I can tell you I cannot see her mustering up the energy to do anything too feisty... She hasn't always been the most exciting or willing in that department, even early on in our relationship...
But like I alluded in my original posts, I'm just making the assumption and accepting that a) They have met many more times than she told me. b) They have had sex multiple times already. c) It's been going on longer than she claims. d) None of this really even concerns me, the marriage is currently over and will require much effort on her part first (and then mine) to ever build anything from the ashes.
She claims it's all just a coincidence that she became friends with him right around the time she asked for D. Just based on the number of times she would call him in a given day, and just keep calling if he never picked up.. I would say she is in the state of very strong limerance, which was propelled to be much stronger than it should've been based on her emotional vulnerability at the time of them first meeting.
Honestly if it's been an EA or a PA is totally irrelevant to me, I honestly hope for her sake they've stepped it up to a PA since that's what I'm assuming it is anyway.
