Originally Posted by CWarrior
The AP's trust rightly seems low.


Well apparently when they met he was actually engaged but "about to not be" and he has since broken off his engagement and is going all in with my W. She claims that while he may see them as "dating" she sees it as just "talking" but I feel that's what's causing her rush is to finalize the divorce. She's ready to truly consummate their relationship and become truly official without having to have any guilt that she's still married. She's told me she has literally called/emailed the lawyer every single day to get a date but they won't respond. Doesn't concern me, divorce is nothing more than a legal document filed at the courthouse at this point. The marriage is done.

But what do you think the AP is seeing that is making him have such trust issues? My wife and I never even talk to one another. She claims that for some reason all of our text messages were erased except an old one and that made him a bit paranoid. I just wonder if she's been acting in a different way since we became truly physically separated and I cut all contact.