Originally Posted by Augusto
This is "her weekend with the kids", I didn't establish this, she imposed it on me. When it's her "weekend off" (as she calls it) she goes to work and directly from work just goes to her friends house and comes back on Sunday.

Frustrating ... but more validation that I need to make myself scarce tonight and tomorrow.


Well done, I love how you held the line without arguing with her, and reframed this from a bizarre "her weekend off" model to a more normalizing "her weekend" vs. "your weekend".