However at our wedding her dad cried during the daughter-dad dance and begged her to be more loving than her mother had been to him because he was miserable. I just hate to have to see my child lose his family unit without much effort from both parties to really commit to keeping it together.
Your kids still have two loving parents, four grandparents. There may be loving step-parents in the future.
Originally Posted by "NewLife3"
I feel that if by some small chance she makes the changes she needs to make and comes back around in 6 mos-2 yrs, would it be silly to give it another shot?
No, if you're both single at the same time, and can answer why this time will be different--e.g., more than "We're so in love." or "She/I see what we each did was a mistake." The AP's trust rightly seems low.
