Been texting with my W about who's picking up who today. She's not happy.
This is "her weekend with the kids", I didn't establish this, she imposed it on me. When it's her "weekend off" (as she calls it) she goes to work and directly from work just goes to her friends house and comes back on Sunday.
I stay home all the time, but today I'm going to do my own thing. So this morning I told her, hey I'm leaving before 7pm, make sure you pick up the kids.
So she starts texting me that she can pick up the 5 year old around 7:15 if I can get her sooner. I said no, I have to leave before 7pm.
Then she asks me if I can take the 13 year old to a dance tonight. I said no, I have to leave by 7.
My 15 year old invented going to dance tonight, I told her *talk to your mom*. Now they're arguing and she's complaining to me about the communication.
I'm fighting to answer what's on my mind .... "On your weekends you are not available as soon as you enter work until sunday .... shouldn't you do all of this like I do when it's your time with the kids"?!?!?
Frustrating ... but more validation that I need to make myself scarce tonight and tomorrow.
