Read the post I quoted. Clearly Many Worries was posting AS Iowadazd....but was logged in as Many Worries. He then went and edited the post that I quoted to "Good luck" to cover his tracks.
Attn Cadet. If so, their stories are incompatible, indicating possible trolling.
ManyWorries posted 7 years ago he was married and he'd had a brief EA and his wife had a 1-year PA, with kids 7/9--they would be 14 and 16 now. He'd read the DB book twice but often did the opposite of its advice. IowaDazd posted he'd been with this partner 12 years but married 7, with kids 4 and 6.
