My story 2

[MJ1980]

So it’s been a bit since I checked in. Been keeping busy. I’ve been going out with friends, hitting the gym, working on my renovation stuff. Things with the wife have been relatively quiet as of late.

Couple things that have happened.
She hasn’t had anything negative to say about me.
She noticed that I have been working out regularly and commented on how I look.
Last night I was out with some friends and she texted me asking if I was having a good time.
She also waited up for me. She said some one was banging on the door and that she was scared and glad I was home.
This morning she asked me how I slept and tickled my shoulder as she walked by.
The D is still moving forward at this point. We are the discovering finances stage.
She hasn’t discussed counseling any more after she brought it up. I haven’t asked about it any.
No relationship talks in a few weeks
I have been validating in our conversations.
She has been less negative towards me.
She told me that one of her longest and best friends is getting divorced. I said I wasn’t surprised. Their marriage was not good. Then I just listened to what she had to say.
I still believe she is still in WW mode.