Good point. I have to figure out a way to stop these types of escalations, just me being calm myself doesn't work.

My wife just want the whole D process to be over and done with too, I sense her exasperation with the whole situation.

Lawyer emailed me that they have an earlier date for mediation, a couple of weeks from now. I'm super nervous about it, before it was going to be 1st week of December but her attorney insisted on an earlier date ... crap. I'm not ready for this ...