MY XH got a little crazy during the D and worse after D
I think besides the loss of property and money and attorney fees, It sets them in a spin their NEW reality is not so pretty and I think they see glimpses of the truth
their choices to let everything go the loss of the kids/family/friends/finances all for this fantasy life...that never seems to unfold as they planned
The reality of the OW, and how sick she really is and from my world Ive never seen my XH recover from his choices to this point I still have hope he may get himself together-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow