jb, these things are tough on kids. And yes they can detect things going on. My daughter was 14, my W and I never said anything in front of her. But she could tell something was changing. She also had a lot of resentment towards me because for years I had isolated myself from her and my W, and now I was being present.

Hang in there. Just be the best husband and father you can be through this.

Bro hugs to you man!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018