The example above is a woman testing a man. Most guys fail the test.

As long as you both are putting EQUAL amounts of effort into things, it is good.


Example:

W:"My car is dirty"
H:"I will go wash it if you make grilled cheese and soup for dinner..."

The communication might be different depending on the state of the relationship.



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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