I've read it when our relationship was good and didn't take much heed to it unfortunately. I agree that the 5LL techniques are for marriages that are in a good place. Wish I took it seriously.
Ok I will check out The Married Man Sex Life Primer!
There were some moments that I think contributed to my wife not being attracted to me. I've exhibited weakness and was going through my own depression and would have anxiety attacks. Crying and pleading for my wife to understand my perspective on things. Concerns about money always brought me to a low place and she saw it. Being selfish when my wife needed me most (Steve pointed this out to me). Would those be examples of beta behavior as well?
As far as Alpha behavior- any examples before I get the book? I'm thinking things like: keeping a calm and relaxed attitude, maintaining my confidence, being decisive, etc
