Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Journal -

Almost 10 months now without sex. I find myself thinking about it more lately.

The 6 months waiting period before I can finalize the divorce ends April 10. A week or so before I will have to send them a written confirmation that I wish to proceed. Again, this waiting period is because w refused to agree to the divorce.

I don't think I want to wait until we are legally married before seeing someone else. We would be divorced if she had just signed the papers.

Any thoughts on when it's ok to start dating again?

Haven't heard from stbxw almost two weeks now since denied her coming over. The exception being me emailing her when rent was late. She apologized, said she forgot and wired immediately. No communication since then.