Originally Posted by LH19


What part of NC includes dinners and drinks? Did you pay?



Yes, I paid... out of habit. She's still putting in her part of the monthly shared housing + utility payments, even though she's not living there right now. I had to ask her if this is fair, and how long she plans on keeping this up. I guess ultimately that might all come out of the same pocket if we D.


Originally Posted by LH19


Not sure what you mean by slow play it but I get the impression that you are working under the illusion of action and are trying to compete with the OM. Unfortunately the more you pursue the more you will suffer.



"slow play" meaning eventually reply to her text - several hours, next day. Since she said that I completely ignore some of her non-business texts when she reaches out.

Last edited by LovingIt; 10/31/19 07:58 PM.