Yeah, still planning. First thing is the divorce group on Friday, and after that I'm thinking of going to an arcade bar (I'm not really a bar person) or a movie.

There's some festivals in Orlando this weekend, I might hop on over there to walk around. I'm also looking at more recurring activities, I like what you guys posted about habitat for humanity, or I may get back involved in some Church ministries. However, I would only be able to do stuff like that every other weekend so have to figure that out.

Hopefully this weekend my wife doesn't come up with any last minute ... "can you watch the kids" requests. She did that a few weekends ago, and I bailed out and went to the movies. She sounded bitter about it "Have *FUN*". But then the next day she asked me again, and guilt tripped me into agreeing so she could go out.

Reading everything here I shouldn't feel bad about it. My rationale before though was that I didn't want her to see me "controlling" her by making myself scarce. But I don't think that's working and she's taking advantage of me. The irony is, she's getting used to me helping more and when the D happens I don't know if she expects me to keep doing that on her "weeks".