So we ended up cleaning the rental unit for a few hours together... afterwards, we grabbed dinner and drinks. As usual, the discussion is cordial - she talked about work and weekend activities, and leaves AP out of the discussion even though I'm fairly certain they are hanging out. I mentioned that I was out of town last weekend and kept it real vague. She got really curious and asked a lot of question about with who and why? I just said by myself and planning / training for an upcoming adventure trip, but not confirmed so don't want to give any details yet.
I feel 2x4 coming... :P I did ask her if she had any further thoughts from our discussion 2 weeks ago... (recap: she mentioned moving back home and working on MR, but I rejected the idea because her was still in contact with AP at work and told her that we really can't work on MR until there is no AP involved)
She replied she hasn't thought about it much due to being sick (even though she's gone out on weekends), but she says that I seem like I've moved on due to my GAL, rejection of her idea to move back in, and not reaching out / non-responsiveness to her texts. She says that I come off like I can take it or leave it. I kind of shrugged at her comments, and reminded her that she chose to move out and reiterated that we can't work on MR until AP is out of the picture. It kind of ended with that, still in limbo - I have a strong suspicion that she moved in with AP now anyways.
I did some validation / acknowledged when she talked about how I dismissed her feeling before. She also acknowledged that she took me and my presence for granted in the MR before.
Question... based on her actions and what she said, do I continue NC and slow play?
My guess is she just said those things to justify her current actions, looking to temp check her Plan-B, and trying to cake eat.
Anyways, not too emotional today - doing a better job of detaching. The lies kind of bother me... but not as bad when you expect it.
