Hi Augusto, TheFriendsTrip(tm) is common and as Steve said rarely helps the relationship. You can't control whether she takes the trip, what she does there, or what her friends say to her. Most trips are less dramatically negative than we imagine. You can control whether you hurt your situation by being needy during the trip, or super-dramatic before or after the trip. Sounds like you're off to a good start in how you initially handled it, journaling here to work through your feelings, and making plans for that weekend.
