Yeah, that's something we're working on, but during this situation she's reading all my micro-expressions just to see if I even hint at thinking something else. But I believe it has gotten much better.
Yes, I've been called a nice guy before. Gotten that feedback from friends and family. Without going into all the details now, I kind of gave her too much say and freedom on our finances which she would keep messing up over and over and I would have to come in and save the day, when I should have put that under control years ago.
Never heard of the book, might be something I need to take a look at.
BTW, what do you guys recommend I do with my wedding ring for now? I still wear mine, I feel like I can't take it off until the D is 'official' and that taking it off is kind of giving in to her. But not sure ...
