I keep repeating one of the suggested replys to her on here and it has become my mantra.
"Given our current situation, I don't think spending time together is a good idea"
It is best to state boundaries once. Enforce by your actions. In some cases, you do not even have to state the boundary, just protect yourself by your actions.
Personally, based on the info you have posted here, I believe you are communicating with her WAY to much.
Just a question for you to ask yourself:
How is she going to miss me when I am constantly in contact with her, text or otherwise?
Remember, counter-intuitive.
Is one of your goals to have an exclusive intimate relationship with her? If so then she needs to FEEL she has lost you. You will know she feels this when she starts BEGGING for a second chance. When she does this, You respond with "I am not sure. I need time to think about what you have said" and then you come here and get advise, options and direction.
HUGS
You can handle this
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
