And I just saw your post, we all get caught up in the moment! No worries my friend!! Don't file unless you want a divorce. If her doing this stuff online is something you can't live with then file and move on. But if you want to work on it than get to gettin!
I would just continue to read and learn about boundaries here and makes 180s on things you'd like to see change in yourself.
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It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.