Just received a call from wife as to who was picking daughter up. I replied we hadn't discussed it today.
She says I should as she has been getting everything ready. Pick up is in 10mins time, I told her I was just dealing with something but would see them all at home in an hour.
Wife then starts to say that she feels she has done everything in getting ready for Halloween and over the last few weeks. That she knew I was busy at work but that I could have done more at home.
(This is the home I have been kicked out of and been made clear it makes her uncomfortable when I'm there)
So I just validated, she paused to say something else, felt like she was looking for an argument. Not biting.
I 'll go round offer to help with anything I can and then keep my focus on the kids.
