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If you can’t see the difference that’s troubling.

The second says “ W I can’t control you and you are free to do as you wish (she has free will) but I love and value myself and beliefs too much to be married to someone who compromises my values.

It’s giving her a choice.

It certainly may come to divorce. But answer this question. If she chooses posting nudes over working things out with you, what does it hat tell you about the state of your marriage?

Trust me she knows it’s wrong!