I agree, every long convo leads to some sort of pain
She loves to talk, and she was my best friend and partner for 16years.

It's an easy trap to fall into.

Halloween tonight so will try and keep all focus on the kids.

I know my son wants to watch a horror movie with me tonight.
I think she is angling towards going out rather than watching a movie together.

Obviously it makes it uncomfortable for her.

Maybe I'll swing it so I go out instead.

Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6