Well DS9. The first thing Im going to do is unload my kitchen ware, my cast iron collection, and my clothes and effects and get settled in. Get some dishware. (XW offered her old wares but I don't want any memories or reminders of her around me all the way down to the forks. I need to heal.) I haven't really cooked for myself much for pleasure in the last year. Been eating fast food everyday. Looking forward to getting back into cooking for myself for plead ure.Her and her Aunt used to do that Sage Sea Salt thing. I might consider it. Definately hear you on the music and incense.

Im going to have to go back multiple trips over the next month to make sure I get everything. Especially the garage and yard. The new place is a one bedroom that needs a little work. Bottom floor of two family. Got a huge shed for tools. Yard/Field in the back. I can play with my pizza oven which I haven't touched in a year. Debating if I want to move the four cords of wood for now XW house that I labored for. There are probably a lot of tools and stuff I can purge that I'm carrying with me. Im not really too prepared for this move other than needs. Once I get settled and stuff unpacked over the next week will keep everyone posted on progress. Still can't believe this is happening. But ill face it head on. Plow through it, and make the best of my life for now.