Unless you are in a hurry for the divorce, I would let it ride for a while. They do tend to avoid discussing divorce and finances once a divorce decision has been put on the table.

If you are truly done w/her and the marriage, then go for it, but I don't think you are. Let things settle for a bit and see if you feel the same in a couple of weeks.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.