Little query - haven't had a reply to my email yet from W.

Shall I contact the L company who can do the financial court order and sort it out? They will still need to contact W anyway and she will have to fill in some forms, as will I, but should I take the lead on this?

Part of me says yes because I think she'll forget to do something and mess it up (she always skim-reads).

Another part of me thinks I should push the entire thing back to her as the whole D process is her decision. I have co-operated at every turn and not being obstructive, but am also not actively moved things forward myself as it's not my choice.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020