Thank you everyone.

Label I’ve just started to read your thread, not caught up yet but it does sound like you’re W is giving her crisis all she’s got. Try to detach and believe nothing that she says, it will make this easier for you on this very long journey.

Just 4 weeks to go now until my wedding anniversary and the 3 year mark for BD. I never believed when all this started that we would make it to our 9 year anniversary, he was adamant it would all be done within 7 months. I wish I could see an end in sight but as we all know spotting the signs of the end stages is difficult at best. So for now I will sit and wait for whatever is next and just hope that the rest of this journey is as kind as possible.