Augusto, are in you in IC? I would highly suggest it.
I am. I'm thinking of changing therapist thought, the one I have is ok but he focuses too much on what I tell him about her behavior.
So I'm trying my best not to initiate communication with my wife as much as possible, have been good at that lately. She usually texts often about kids, money, things she needs. Today she didn't text me at all until now (4:00PM) asking if she can use debit card to buy groceries. I usually answer right away, is it worth it to make her wait a bit before replying? or is that just being kind of petty ...?
