This morning before my wife left for work I was in the kitchen getting ready to leave as well. I was grabbing a dish and I felt her waiting behind me. Then she asked,"Hey, do you mind giving me a hug?" I said, "Yeah, come here, I'll give you a hug." Then we embraced for a good while and said our pleasantries as she left. I KNOW that doesn't sound like much, but after weeks of her not wanting to touch me, that was definitely a milestone for me.
Perfect.
Steve85 talks about touch charges. You might want to test the waters. Maybe one tonight. If it goes well, maybe two tomorrow. It is briefly touching in none sexual ways while doing something else.
Example:
Wife is in kitchen cooking. I walk up next to her, touch her on the shoulder, and reach into the cabinet to get a glass. then I break contact with her and fill the glass with water and take a drink.
I do this with my lady all the time. 20 times a night. I do escalate to more sexual in nature. We are in a good place though. Mine include kisses, shoulder rubs etc.
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