Well I did it and it was so much easier than I expected. I had a short, but direct reply prepared in my head for when she asked why I was sleeping in the bed. I took my pillows up first just to test the waters and drop the hint but it didn’t seem to phase her so I went back down to let the dog out and lock up the house. Came back up and got into bed. She simply asked “you’re sleeping here tonight?” To which I replied “yes”. Best night sleep in nearly a month!
You Da man!
Do you make the bed? If not 180 and start making the bed if you are the last one to get up. It is a simple task, and your first accomplishment for the day. If she asks, hold eye contact,smile,simply rely "I like it this way", then head out to take care of other things.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
