Originally Posted by Iowadazd
So what am I doing wrong?
Use everything as a learning experience. You did your best with what you knew. Now you know better. Change your behavior.


Right now, focus really hard on making it "SAFE" for your wife to talk to you.


As the man, it is critical for you to control your "scary" emotions. You can state that you are angry, and why.



Always think this "Is what I am about to do or say, going make things better or worse?"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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