Yes I will continue to wear my R. I feel like it's a reflection of who I am as a man- one who values his family, wife, and marriage.
So you and your W are able to have discussions about the M? A week ago before I finally understood the concept of letting go and detachment, I made a mistake and was asking her about our R and M. After about 2 minutes she said this discussion was giving her a stomach ache, making her nauseous, and that she was no longer attracted to me. That was tough to hear, and ever since then my heart hardened a little. Detachment has been a lot easier for me after that. I'm wondering if that sparked my "awakening"?
