A year on and standing

[ovrrnbw]

TS,

I am seeing the R talk recently. It doesn't seem to have helped. Talking about her behavior being unacceptable seems to be counter productive when you are still hanging around and not leaving her, so IMO you should avoid these talks for the time being.

Keep your sorrow and personal growth to yourself IMO. Don't discuss how great things could have been. I don't think she cares about your pain at the moment, and you talking about how you moving on to be a greater person and parent just comes off the wrong way.

Let her see these things for herself, because she won't hear it from you.