JR, just be careful about motive. WASs can sniff out "reverse psychology" like a bloodhound. Being mysterious to get her curious isn't the same is not behaving as a husband would with a wife in a healthy marriage. I don't recall you saying she wanted a D, but many of the LBSs here have had the D bomb dropped. Which means they've been fired as their spouse. Your sitch might be a little different, but don't over share because right now that isn't where your marriage is at, not because you want her to be curious.

But overall, you are doing great. Keep it up.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018