Nice job taking your bed back and her response is very promising. I think you have a really good chance here because I don't think she is at the point of no return.
Continue to listen and validate and GAL. To use an analogy, think of her as a cat. When you're relaxed calm, content and the cat is curios it will come to you and sit on your lap. If you force it to stay or chase a cat it will run away. Let her come to you and her own pace.
Really nice job it is usually very difficult for newbies to make strong moves. Keep it up!
