I 2nd the wearing of the ring. I took mine off and left it on the counter when she asked me to leave for a few days. I put it back on when I came home and have been wearing it ever since. It felt worse for me not wearing it. Do what makes you feel better. I completely understand putting pressure on her about the R. When I had my “awakening” all I wanted to do was discuss “us” and how we can fix the M. It was too much for her so I backed off. I started dismissing the day to day talks because it wasn’t addressing the issue or giving me answers. That was a mistake. I’m now really enjoying any time and any thing she wants to talk about. If it leads to a M discussion, great. If not, so what? I’m letting her guide the discussions and I’m just being present in them and fully attentive to what she says so as not to put any pressure on her.
