I've felt her distant from my the last 2 years, first she wouldn't say "I love you" just "me too" when I would say it. And last year she wouldn't even respond. We had some issues with the house that I was resolving and put that in the backburner and didn't address it on time.
I feel like I'm just going to run out of time and there'll be no way to stop this divorce.
I'll second what DS9 said. Your wife says she hung in for six years, at least two years beyond when she could say, "I love you." I wouldn't expect her to turnaround in 1 month. I wouldn't expect her to stop the divorce. If you want a second shot with the mom of your kids, settle in for the long haul like she did.
Has she talked at all about a timeline for moving out?
Originally Posted by "Augosto"
I've made some changes myself, stopped the travel, took on the task for driving the kids around
A good start, making positive changes to yourself.
Originally Posted by "Augosto"
she has a lot of hurts ... many legitimate, many somewhat exaggerated, and she cried a lot but I felt it was positive to talk about them for me to listen and to acknowledge her hurt and my part in causing it.
Nice! Listening, acknowledging, and admitting fault when true and truly felt is all good.
I wish you well. I hope you post often and reach a happy ending of some sort.
