I do not agree with hclacs. You and W are both hurting from the confrontation. Now especially, you need to choose your words and actions very carefully. There will be a time to set boundaries. I promise. Now is not the time. Please please please begin to examine your flaws and stop trying to justify your own actions. Recognize that your W is also hurting. The more you try to control her now, the more she will resent you - she already does. You are on a collision course with D, and you may be the one to cause it.
