AS, R2C posted this quote (sorry I am not sure how to copy): My W has said she is a WAS. or atleast told me that fits her sitch.
WAS's are masters of acting "as if". They act like the new life they're pursuing is perfect, the answer to all their hopes and dreams. The reality is she's struggling. There's a storm inside her, she's fighting between wanting to go back to her old life and thinking she needs to pursue a new one. Which will win out is anyone's guess, but don't believe the placid, happy face she's putting on, it's a mask.
Thanks for this post... i find strength that its not just me going through this.
I am thinking this is the case that she is fighting a storm but never shows it. I am like a heartbeat and she is like a flat line... this is what antis up the responses from me for a response that rarely comes until it is full of venum
Me 58 W 58 T 36 yrs. M 32 yrs D 27 D 23 BD 8/3/19 Waiting for filing from W