There is a saying by Tony Robbins that “rejection breeds obsession”. The truth is you probably feel about her that same as she feels about you but men typically put up with more. It’s more about you feeling like your losing control of your life. Like your spinning down a drain and there’s nothing to grab on to and that’s a horrible feeling. Not to mention your probably fearing starting over at 58 years old.
Could be it... i don't want to start over but have watched my brothers do so in the last 3 yrs and one older than me and one younger. They both say you will be happier getting through this regardless of the outcome. And both have found partners who make them happier.
Just dont want to face it I guess. The feelings are still strong and cant tell why I did have a brief discussion w IC but no clear answer I can cling to. We both will be fine financially but its tearing everything apart that we built that's sad. Not a good reason to hang in there I know.
Me 58 W 58 T 36 yrs. M 32 yrs D 27 D 23 BD 8/3/19 Waiting for filing from W
