The other shoe

[Ready2Change]

So now I'm alone and I want to cry.

Let the tears flow while you are alone, never in the presence of your W.

I don't know what to do now?

When in doubt, do nothing. Wait.

Steve85 gave good advise.

I feel if I give her an ultimatum she might want to say the D word.

No ultimatums. Set boundaries. Read the boundaries thread. Again, take time to weigh all your options and do not make emotional decisions. Use logic. Run things past us first. Debate the pros and cons of conflicting advise.