Just be careful with the house work. Certainly do your fair share but do not become super husband, and her maid. Remember, you need to command respect. Most women do not respect men that are playing their maid. I too in my sitch got better about helping around the house, but I still let her do her fair share. It is a balancing act.
This is especially important if she is in any type of A (EA or PA), since her respect for you is already very low. You do not want to continue to make decisions that erode her respect. Attraction to you will follow respecting you. That is what taking your bed back is all about.
Keep on keeping on!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018