Is DBing truly about letting go? It feels a lot like giving up on the relationship
This is flawed. Based on the idea that letting go is giving up. You realize that those two are not the same, right? Most people that have kids, raise them to be 18-25....then let them go. But they NEVER give up on them. So that proves that letting go and giving up are not analogous.
So let her go. Because really you have no other choice. Be glad that she is happy. But that doesn't mean you ever give up. I've seen a lot of sitches where the WAS moves out, D's, even gets married to a divorce partner.....but eventually still comes back and wants to R.Sometimes the LBS is still open to it, sometimes they aren't. But the point is that there is always that chance.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
