Does she miss your company, or your help with parenting?
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She makes me miserable
Area for self improvement. Learn to truly be happy in her presence. Do not let her have that power over you. Happiness is an internal, not an external thing.
Originally Posted by ozman
The only thing that I’m not looking forward to is child support. Kansas is a no fault state and even if custody is 50/50. Man usually has to pay child support
Google this "Kansas Child Support & Parenting Time Calculations"
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I also don’t know how I would have S with my work schedule
You either put your relationship with S before or after making money on the priorities. I know what I would pick.
As far as the money issue, can you and W reduce family spending? Is second job temporary? If you do separate, the combined spending will be higher.
I advise against a R talk. You should have a Talk with W about money, and part of that should be about your time spent at second job and parenting time with S.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
