Seeing as though I’ve had to organise basically everything so far, could you look into it and start organising a court order if we need one?
D, I would suggest telling her that you are willing to cooperate with her if she does the work, but since D is not what you want then she should not be asking you to do the work and you will not do it for her.
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I'm not happy that she's (a) asking me to do this when she wants D, not me, and then (b) ends it with a casual "Hope all is well with you", like she's just asked me to pick up some shopping on my way home from work!
Yes I would say she's trying to be nice in the hopes that you'll do everything for her and make life easy-street. Don't do it!
