Went out and GAL Friday and Saturday night with some friends. Dinner and movies and games - oh my! It was actually kind of nice to have distractions, even if just for a little bit.
Perfect!
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WW and I friendly texted all weekend, but I have been successful in sticking to my guns on not spending time together or seeing each other.
I agree with R2C, cut way back on the texting. Don't initiate at all, and when she does then be brief with your responses.
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WW has been freaking out a little. I think it's because she can sense that I am serious and will not tolerate the triangle any longer. She keeps calling me pet names, saying ILY, and telling me that she can only see a future with me.
Yes, that's a typical reaction when they feel their grip on Plan B slipping.
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I haven't really responded other than to say that I want the same things, but will not be in a triangle.
She says shes only sees a future with you? Don't reply. She says it over and over again and asks what you think? Tell her you will not be in a relationship with a cheater. Don't play her mind games. Your attitude should be that as long as she is cheating you will not be her friend, her confidante, her Plan B or her future. PERIOD.
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I'm laser focused on myself and growth. I haven't talked with our mutual friends about anything going on which also feels nice. At first it felt weird, as if I was hiding something. Now, I'm proud of the fact that whenever someone brings up a temp check on our R (ie: So how are you both doing? Are ya'll working things out? Etc) I can just say "I just want to spend time with you and not think about anything for a while. I'm working on myself." It feels empowering.
