I strongly suggest to pull back on the texting as well. She need to really feel what it is like to not have you in her life. She has to miss you and want you back. She has to really jump through hoops to get you back.
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WW has been freaking out a little.
Pull away and she pursues. You want her pursuing you.
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I haven't really responded other than to say that I want the same things, but will not be in a triangle.
Change your response. Vague is a good tactic right now. "I am not sure what I want now"
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I can just say "I just want to spend time with you and not think about anything for a while. I'm working on myself." It feels empowering.
Great response. Another good response "It ran it's course"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
