Just a little update... H is still trying to help me get moved out, but he now seems genuinely happy when I'm at the house. This is in contrast to when we first split and he barely wanted me in the house (would ask me to leave) and didn't want me to touch his stuff. Today, I was invited over after work today for family time, so we'll see how that goes.
We haven't had any arguments or R talk in almost a month, and no papers are filed yet, but we're close. There's still no signs of another woman, but H is definitely working out a lot. Right now, he says he's not interested in dating or being married ever again, but I have a hard time believing him.
I will say that despite him telling me during BD that he didn't love me and felt nothing for me, I am now 100% certain that he does have feelings towards me. Even the kids have picked up on this, which has led to some awkward moments.
We've only been separated since the beginning of September, so I'm a little surprised to see his attitude towards me change so quickly. I have no reason to think he's changed his mind on the divorce, but I'm confused nonetheless.
