Sorry to hear about all these allegations. It must be tough. I haven't copped this myself, but I suspect it's something to do with their distorted minds, and I think Unchien gave a good metaphor as well. Perhaps they get some perverse pleasure from causing discomfort.
Continue letting it wash over you and taking the high road mate. You go this - always have, always will mate.
Cheers, DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24