I became very independent over the last few months with making decisions on pretty much everything by myself and for myself . If I wanted to go GAL on a Monday I just went . If I wanted new clothes I just went shopping . If I didn’t want to talk to H I just didn’t answer phone.
Hi Caligirl, I hope that you will NOT let go of this independent, powerful you that makes you so happy and attracted your H back. My R is back, but I still am working to get closer to where you are emotionally. An IC sounds wise and glad to hear your H is so far trying to make the process smooth and easy.